QUESTION
How can I know if my new boyfriend will perfectly suit me in all my sex desires without changing many sexual partners?
| Name | Age | Marital Status | From |
|---|---|---|---|
| Benoite | 24 years old | In a Relationship | France |
MY ANSWER
The ONLY WAY to find out is to ask your future boyfriend straight away just before starting your romantic relations. Just talk to him about your sexual needs, desires and fantasies. It is absolutely normal practice and there is absolutely nothing to be ashamed about such conversations.
At this moment you can ask something like: When should I start such conversation with a man whom I just met? My answer would be: at any time, place, moment convenient for you. It is the same as asking after how many dates should you have sex? Some go to bed after the third date, others after 10 dates and others on the first date. There is certainly no correct answer to such questions, so just do however you feel doing.
You can start such conversation whenever and wherever it is the most convenient for you. Once again, there is absolutely nothing to worry or be ashamed about such conversation. Just talk this question over if it so important for you and if the man tells you that to have sex 4 or 5 times a day during weekends is just too much for him, well… it is not your man.
Then find another man and have the same conversation with another man. Eventually you will meet your Mr. Perfect with whom at least most of your sexual desires will be satisfied.
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