Finding a Man to Fall in Love if You Have Never Loved Any Man
I start and end all my relations with men the same way all my life. I am a very good looking woman. Problem is that I don’t have any interest towards men, but when I meet a man and I see that man likes me, I start to like him as well after a short period of time. When I start relations with such man, after a month I get bored and break up because I hate the man with whom I was in a relatioship. Each time I understand that I never was in love not only with the last man, but with any man. After breaking up I have a depression, but then I see another man who likes me, and I usually start a new relationship with that new man and after a month break up. I live in such way for many years and cannot do anything to change it.
How can I find a man to fall in love and start a family? Is there something wrong in my brain that has to be corrected?
| Name | Age | Marital Status | From |
|---|---|---|---|
| Mary | 32 years old | Single | USA |
Answer
It is pretty hard for me to get into psychoanalysis of someone just from a few sentences that have been submitted online, so I have no answer to your second question 🙁
Regarding your first question, it would be interesting to know what happens when you meet a man somewhere, on the street, in the subway, in the bar, etc. and you like him straight away? In other words, you meet a man and you don’t know if he likes you or not, but you would want to engage in relationships with this particular man straight away.
You have to understand that when somebody wants to be a really happy person in relationships with a man or a woman, that person has to choose that partner himself, or herself. If that choice is mutual, there will be a happy couple formed. If you like a man and he does not like you – it will be neurotic relationship. If you like each other equally, or one likes even more than the other person – this may be a start of a love relationship.
Try to choose a man yourself, but in a way that you like a man straight away, not by looking if he likes you or not during the first meeting. Probability of long term relationship in your case will be much greater than if you play a so called Thank You game, in which if you see that a man likes you, you reward him in return without any sympahy from your side towards him at the beginning.